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For my fellow asexuals did you ever have a relationship with someone who’s very much not asexual and did it work out? I really like my bf but he’s not ace and I worry that I’ll (he wouldn’t) either pressure myself into something or he’ll feel unfulfilled
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Anonymous 2d

Tried and failed here. Kind of accepting the fact that I'll need to find another ace person or give up on having a relationship that works out

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Anonymous 2d

Yes, had a relationship. Our differences made me question if I was ace as he had a much stronger drive for making out and I’d get bored. We broke up

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Anonymous 2d

I'm asexual and in a relationship with someone's who's not, but i do like sex occasionally. I only really want it once a monthish and he's completely fine and respectful about that but yeah if you're not into sex at all it might be more difficult since sex is so fundamental for a lot of allosexuals. it's not impossible though!

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Anonymous 2d

Statistically it’s highly unlikely it’ll work long term. One of the largest driving forces of divorce is a bad sex life, let alone no sex or you having sex you don’t want to have. Either situation, sex or no sex, someone is happy. Everyone thinks it’ll be okay but once a long amount of time passes they realize they actually do or don’t want sex and can’t fully shift to the one they dont want

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Unhappy**

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