Anonymous #4 2d

I mean how many times have you not given a shit about what the person your friend is crushing on said to them today and your friend tells you anyway knowing damn well you don’t give a single flying fuck. I’ve had lesbian friends and I’m a gay man. They’ve given me all the details about their sex lives wasn’t my cup of tea, but I’m still gonna be there for them and show interest in something outside of myself. Hell I even ask follow up questions and reassure them it’s ok to talk to me about it

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Anonymous #4 2d

Not saying everyone has to care or anything by any means but it’s perfectly normal to hear things from your friends that you truly do not care about, don’t wanna hear, or things that you personally have no interest in.

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Anonymous #5 2d

that’s nice of you but not required or expected of anyone who isn’t genuinely interested. what people want to hear or how comfortable they are talking about sex varies, and that’s okay. detailed descriptions of sex acts are not on the same level at all as what someone’s crush said to them today.

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Anonymous #5 2d

I’m a lesbian and one reason I don’t like hearing about normal heterosexual sex is it makes me think about my rape and it makes me uncomfortable, and sometimes after hearing about heterosexual sex I will have flashbacks and nightmares where I wake up screaming. I feel like her friends could also be in a similar position. Like for me I’m comfortable hearing about everything up until sex, like please tell me about how your boyfriend took you on a romantic date

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Anonymous #5 2d

But I don’t want to hear about his dick size, what his dick felt like inside of you, (this is an example from my own life) how into BDSM yall are and how much he beats you during sex

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