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LGBTQIA+ 8w
Sorry for the wall of yap but like, I don’t really want a vagina or boobs? But I don’t like having a dick either. I think I just want to be something else
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LGBTQIA+ 8w
I have some weird unhealthy fantasy where I feel like if I were afab but still chose to be a guy anyway that would make my identity even more valid. (Not to minimize the struggles of being trans or afab I’m not saying any of this is logical or reasonable)
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Anonymous 8w

just putting it out there so you’re aware—genital nullification surgery exists.

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Anonymous 8w

Genitals are gross

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Anonymous 8w

Go to therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I will not lie this might be the move bro, because it sounds like you have some underlying issue which makes you feel imposter syndrome about being a guy even though you are one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

A few things I’d have to suggest have you considered that maybe you just want to be your own person without the association with stereotypical cis people?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

That’s what I was thinking bc like this sounds so complex that the best course of action is therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

felt. nullification surgery appeals to me for this reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I’m already in therapy 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Trust me I’m quite aware I need it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I already am myself but for others to not do that I feel like the only way to have that happen would be to change my body/expression past what I want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Less so imposter syndrome and more so I just like the idea of overcoming barriers to be myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I’ve already done Alot of that, my understanding is my brain started romanticizing it as a coping mechanism

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