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LGBTQIA+ 4w
ppl gotta stop pushing labels- like im all for finding labels that make you feel seen but if i wanna call myself non-binary even though i technically could be considered gender fluid let me- same with asexual like bro just let me live my life omfg
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Anonymous 4w

THIS!!!! i tell ppl im ace but thats not an end all be all thing. it's complicated! life it complicated! feelings are complicated! let me live in peace

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Anonymous 4w

Bro they do it to me too and I’m bi. they want me to identify as a queer curious Omni-pan sexual romantic. Or I have people who deadass get mad at me for not identifying as pan or call me transphobic for identifying as bi? Like bro trans men and women aren’t a secret third gender and bisexuality doesn’t exclude them in anyway.

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Anonymous 4w

It pisses me off to no end when people “decide” other people’s labels for them

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Anonymous 4w

labels stress me out so to gay ppl i say im queer and to straights who are norma ab it i say bi but i like who i like and thats like next to nobody

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Anonymous 4w

I’m 2spirit and deal with this shit all the time. “Like nonbinary?” NO!!! SILENCE WHITE DEVIL 😭!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

as a panromantic asexual person i just tell people im pan because thats the label that feels right for me. i dont care if you think im bi, i call myself pan because it feels right. I think the pan and bi infighting really sadly made a huge rift in the community 😞 just find a label that makes you feel happy or don’t find a label!! whatever the fuck you want !! >:D

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Fr the bi and pan discourse is insufferable. Like let people call themselves what they want.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I do the same with my gender. I say I’m non-binary to non-queer people I trust, I say I’m genderfluid to queer people I trust, and to my very closest friends I say I’m a girlboy creature depending on the day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

yeah my gender is between me and the gods atp bc it is something sinister

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