just like #1 said, don't just mindlessly do it, think of a pattern you're making with your tongue and be responsive to your partner. if they make a sound or tense up or squirm, keep doing what made that happen.

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i saw someone once say to think of it like licking an ice cream cone: soft tongue, not stiff

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Watch this yt video, it helped me a lot with the basics! https://youtu.be/mLR23oP9l28?si=iXhiq_KatisP6JYu

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Very slow, very soft, can be helpful to keep some skin between your tongue and her cl*t to keep it comfortable for her

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