
okay i work at the public library downtown and 1)yeah you are definitely right and 2) i have a coworker i SWORE was one of those older snobby academia type gay men(the kind that goes to the met and shits on everything yktv) and after months of knowing him i found out he has a wife and daughter .
I KNOW RIGHT?? I used to work at a downtown public library too (i rotated between three branches) and damn near everyone was queer except for the one dude i was absolutely sure was gay (the type that’s like super super sweet and definitely cries over not being able to adopt every dog in the shelter; turns out he’s been dating his childhood girlfriend for the past seven years)