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LGBTQIA+ 1d
how do i (nicely) tell my straight cis friend that i don't want to bring them to gay bars because it's fucking weird and it's the one space that we have without them
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Anonymous 16h

My cishet brother goes to gay bars/clubs and I hate it, idk how to get him to stop

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Anonymous 19h

They could be closeted and need an out queer to help them on their journey

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Anonymous 1d

are they really your friend if you don’t include them in plans? Like you don’t have to go to a gay bar if you’re planning on going out with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

i'm not wanting to go to a gay bar, they just want to go with me bc they don't have any gay friends to go with and so i'm their ticket in

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

they're not, they just think the gay community is better and more fun to party with it sometimes feels like she looks at us as an object or smth for entertainment

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