Anonymous jotaro 17h

Amazing username

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Anonymous #3 16h

Worse than MAGA is really insane to say actually

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Anonymous #16 16h

Listen I’m a contrarian but this is stupid

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Anonymous #16 16h

How are we homophobic? Sorry we like more than one gender.

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Anonymous #14 16h

This is something only a bi person would say cause the amount of microagressions white bi people make

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Anonymous #16 16h

I’m willing to hear you out, what specifically could I improve on?

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Anonymous #3 16h

thank you gang

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Anonymous fuecocolover 16h

it’s fucked up

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hey! so i understand your point of view but i also understand why bi people would be upset. personally, im pan and i always make the joke that im 2/3 gay but at the end of the day i am still gay/queer. i think if its a bi person making the joke about themselves or a close friend making it it’s different, but when other people make the joke it can be seen as harmful just to the biphobia people face about the whole “pick a side” thing. i dont face it as much being pan which is weird

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but i do understand the feelings of the folks who don’t like it

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I mean, the fact you’re on here claiming bisexual people are “privileged” probably contributes to that. Maybe if you did some introspection of your own, you’d realize a lot of bisexual folks face pressure to be in heteronormative relationships because of societal stigmas and people like you who try to other them from their own community 🤷 They also face higher rates of abuse, but you know. Whatever fits your narrative I guess.

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Anonymous #20 16h

like its 2026 and youre grown being biphobic.. just weird

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Anonymous #7 16h

yeah. people don’t say that to pan people. it’s insane because bi is more of a blanket term anyway. i would definitely date other queer people, but i still consider myself bisexual

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Anonymous #3 16h

ESP as a POC like that’s actually not comparable at all

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“Proximity to heterosexuality” is the stupidest fucking thing I’ve ever heard. Just because we date the opposite sex sometimes, does not mean we aren’t queer or that bigots don’t consider us just more of those “ filthy nasty fslurs.” Bigots don’t care about our “proximity to heterosexuality” as long as we also have “proximity to homosexuality” too. If we are shunned from the queer community too then we have no support anywhere. Happy fucking pride month to ALL.

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Anonymous #14 16h

Girl I do not know you

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Anonymous #16 16h

Then stop pretending like you do lmao

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Anonymous #7 16h

I’m willing to accept that maybe I just don’t understand how the joke is about “picking a side” and there’s layers to the joke that I’m not getting

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Anonymous #19 15h

Yeah bisexual people have privilege, and I say that as someone who is bi. As a bi guy I could very easily conform to compulsive heterosexuality and pass as straight. That’s a privilege that many of the people in our community do not have. Acknowledging it as a privilege alongside acknowledging homophobia is fine

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Anonymous jotaro 15h

EXACTLYYYYYYYYYYY BRO THATS THE #1 MOST IMPORTANT THING. THEY DONT GAF WHAT FLAVOR OF QUEER YOU ARE. YOURE JUST ANOTHER FLSUR TO THEM

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Anonymous #21 15h

Never said that bi people aren’t queer, just that they have the privilege of passing as straight

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Anonymous #14 15h

You could, sure. But so could anyone. The point is that no one should have to based on external pressure.

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Anonymous #19 15h

Do you not see how it is different between gay and bi people? That’s the problem I have with yall. You struggle to understand the fact that gay people ACTUALLY don’t want to date the opposite sex. Like ever. There is no attraction or desire to be in a relationship with the opposite gender, and most gay people actually find the idea of that really repulsive.

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Anonymous #16 15h

You do realize that homophobic ppl do se a difference!! They would throw us all in the same camp. Stop dividing the community. And yes most of us know that. I am just so sick of not being welcome in straight places. And when I turn to the queer community I am meet with more vitriol.

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Anonymous OP 15h

Do not see*

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Anonymous #16 15h

I’m talking EXCLUSIVELY in the context of biphobia, don’t get me wrong.

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Anonymous OP 15h

A majority of the queer community is bisexual people. That’s why your post is one of the most liked posts here. If you aren’t finding community amongst bi people that’s because you’re trying to find it online rather than IRL

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Anonymous #16 15h

And you’re struggling to understand that we’re still inherently queer/discriminated against because homophobes genuinely do not care. If you experience any sort of same-sex attraction and you’re open about it, you are typically othered from society whether you’re mono or bisexual

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Anonymous OP 15h

It’s not dividing the community. We‘re being pushed out of it

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Anonymous #16 15h

Holy shit, what in the chronically online tumblr/4chan crossover event are you even talking about???

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Anonymous #3 15h

Idk what you mean I have never used either of those

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Anonymous #16 15h

Who is trying to throw you out because it certainly not me or most bi ppl

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Yes because bi people just naturally force themselves to be attracted to whatever opposite sex is nearby for convenience obviously 🙄

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The very fact that I have ever been attracted to a member of the opposite sex is already deviating from the social norm you complete walnut

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Anonymous #14 15h

what a dumbass comment. says the person who replied to a random persons comment

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Anonymous #16 15h

right? like all the biphobia i’ve seen comes from bi people 😹

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Anonymous #16 15h

How are bi ppl homophobic ? Explain, please, I’m genuinely curious

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Anonymous #14 15h

How did I do that

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Anonymous #23 15h

*woe

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Anonymous #22 15h

just read

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Anonymous #19 15h

Well, now I have to remove the quotes

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Anonymous #21 15h

I’m also quite curious I want to be more inclusive for my fellow queer people.

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Anonymous #16 15h

You said I was making white bi microagressions so I was asking you what I said and you responded “I don’t know you”

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Anonymous #14 15h

I didn’t say you were doing that. I said the amount of people that do that

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Anonymous #16 15h

this is getting stupid, i can’t engage with this whole post anymore. i’m turning off notifications

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Anonymous #14 15h

As soon as you get called out for not reading ofc

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Anonymous #16 15h

Maybe write more clearly? God you’re actually insufferable

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Anonymous OP 15h

I can answer this! See, 16 doesn’t have an actual answer, because they’re either A) stirring up shit for its own sake, or B) being a bigot in a way that they can rationalize as “not homophobic.” See, some people just want to have a scapegoat, a group to be bigoted against, and if you’re gay, well, you don’t want to pick yourself. So you might pick women, black people, trans people, or in this case, bi people!

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Anonymous #14 15h

It’s was written very clearly actually. Sorry for not going into two paragraphs of detail explaining exactly what I mean, I thought you could read and interpret

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Anonymous #16 15h

Liar liar pants on fire. You did call out 14 specifically.

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Anonymous #3 15h

Y‘all just want to be victims so bad oh my god

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Anonymous #16 15h

Wow you screenshotted yourself lying, I’m so impressed

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Anonymous #16 15h

The exchange in question

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Anonymous #16 15h

You know it’s bad when they’re defending me lmao

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Anonymous #3 15h

You are actually illiterate. I’m not saying that they specifically do that , because I do not know them. Im saying that of course a bi person would not notice that because they do not face homophobic microagressions from bi people

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Anonymous #14 15h

Kick rocks

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Anonymous #16 15h

Don’t make me tap the sign. YOU LITERALLY DID SAY THAT

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Anonymous #14 15h

Oh yeah, I got issues with your other takes in this post. ISSUES. But at least you aren’t as braindead and immature, apparently. And I have some sympathy for a devils advocate. This is neither the time nor the place, tho.

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Anonymous #3 15h

What part specifically did I say that 14 is the one I am accusing of making the microagressions

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Anonymous #16 15h

DONT MAKE ME KEEP TAPPING THE SIGN

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I said that they said something only a bi person would say. I didn’t say they were making microagressions. I meant that they said that because they don’t experience those homophobic microagressions from bi people

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Anonymous #3 15h

Let me be perfectly clear, my praxis is always “if someone is more left leaning then me I need to figure out what they know that I don’t” which has lead me to the conclusion to view bisexuality from an intersectional lens. I try to acknowledge homophobia as well as the privilege that bi people can have. Maybe I’ve done a poor job articulating it and maybe I’ve antagonized people too much. Still, I want to be willing to hear people out if they disagree with me

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Anonymous #3 15h

Calm down bro it’s Yikyak

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Anonymous #16 15h

either you’re just ragebaiting or the literacy crisis is showing

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Anonymous #4 15h

The literacy crisis is showing on your end. Nothing in that comment says that #14 was making microagressions

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Anonymous #4 15h

Why are yall replying to every comment except the ones where im clarifying what I meant

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Anonymous #16 15h

probably the part where you were responding to #14 with that

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Anonymous #25 15h

What part specifically? You are literally making this up cause that was never what I meant lmfao

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Anonymous #16 14h

see the part i circled? that indicates you’re talking to that person, hope this helps

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Anonymous #25 14h

See that would make sense if I said ”YOU are making microagressions“ but I didn’t say that now didn’t I? Is it clicking yet

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Anonymous #16 14h

you don’t have to specifically say “you” when you’re directly responding to someone, what you said very much implied you were talking to #14, no where in your comment did you ever say you weren’t talking to them either

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Anonymous #25 14h

I WAS talking to them. I said they said something only a bi person would say. My reasoning for that, is that bi people don’t experience homophobic microagressions that are specific to being gay and not bi.

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Anonymous #3 14h

You are actually so illiterate

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Anonymous #16 14h

If you want to get technical and semantic about it (as if this conversation wasn’t too semantic already) what we are discussing is the “relevance” of what you said using the Gricean Maxims. TL;DR You would not have mentioned it had it not been relevant (even if that wasn’t your intention)

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Anonymous #16 14h

can you make up your mind on if you were talking to them or not? cause what i responded to originally you were questioning how your message was taken as being directed at #14… and as a bi person who grew up in a homophobic family i do also disagree on your last statement there as well, they certainly didn’t care about what sexuality i identified with specifically when they made homophobic comments

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Anonymous #25 14h

Yep and that’s why I said specifically around being gay and not bi. I’m talking about homophobic microagressions from bisexual people towards gay people

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Anonymous #14 14h

It was relevant. 14 is uneducated about homophobia from bi people because they don’t experience it

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Anonymous #16 14h

You do know that you’re talking about… 14. Right. Like read their other comments…

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Anonymous #26 14h

Do you want a medal or…

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Anonymous #19 14h

I’d love one, thanks!

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Anonymous #23 14h

Listen that was funny. Idk why it was downvoted 💀

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Anonymous #16 14h

Why is it not “clocking” to you that he’s standing on business 🙄😤

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Anonymous #4 13h

the calls coming from inside the house

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Anonymous #14 13h

We could have some *proximity* to privilege for sure. But that doesn’t change the fact that I get discriminated for being bisexual by both the homophobic str8’s AND the non-accepting gays. Str8 ppl accuse me of pretending to be str8 thinking I’m gay. Gay ppl accuse me of pretending to be gay thinking I’m str8. I just want to be understood and respected. Sincerely, a bi dude.

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Anonymous #16 9h

And you’re very obviously uneducated bout the homophobia bi people experience. Ya know like what you’re actively doing rn

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Anonymous #32 9h

I experience the same homophobia bi people experience WOMP WOMP

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Anonymous #16 9h

Kettle meet pot

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Anonymous #20 9h

Wouldn’t that just mean in the plain sense of the pure definition broken down in the Latin root a person who’s afraid of two things

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Anonymous #16 9h

Ohhhh so you’re bi? Congrats queen

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Anonymous #3 9h

Okay but using that as an example when MAGA also made concentration camps, supports genocide, and continues to further American imperialism is just kinda crazy

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Anonymous #31 9h

Word meaning can evolve past the parts that make them you know. The same reason homophobia means more than being scared of gay people

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Anonymous #32 9h

Bi people experience the same homophobia gay people experience lmao

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Anonymous #16 9h

Not true. Saying that harms bi and other queer people. And the fact that that is your stance on the matter shows that you are not educated enough to even be having this conversation

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Anonymous #32 9h

I used to be out as bisexual before I had the courage to tell the truth, and multiple homophobic people I was around told me stuff along the lines of ”well at least your not gay, that would be a lot worse“ so let’s not pretend that bisexuals are the most oppressed class ever

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Anonymous #32 9h

How is it different then?

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Anonymous #16 9h

I’m not the one playing the oppression Olympics over here that’s you. No where in my comments did I say that. But it’s still different. Different does not equal more or less extreme. Bi people have to deal with people like you that other queer people don’t have to experience. That’s the difference. And if they experience “the same homophobia” you do, then why are they any less queer or whatever else than you?

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Anonymous #32 9h

That’s biphobia not homophobia. And they are less queer because they are not forced to live, as most see it, an ”alternative lifestyle.“ most of them will just marry the opposite gender and pretend they were never queer. Gay people don’t have a choice

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Anonymous #16 9h

Explain lavender marriages then

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Anonymous #19 9h

You have the be actually dense if you need me to explain to you how a lavender marriage is inherently less of an ideal situation than a straight relationship

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Anonymous #16 9h

You said they don’t have a choice yet it happens all the time due to heteronormative pressure. Yet you refuse to believe that same societal pressure might apply to bisexual folks who “wind up marrying the opposite gender anyways” Plus you’ve been in this comment section all day attacking other members of your community, and for what exactly?

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Anonymous #19 9h

Im not part of the same community as bisexuals lmao. And yeah, a bi person may feel pressured to date the opposite gender, but with that person they can have a fulfilling relationship. Odds are, they would have ended up in a straight relationship anyway. Is it making sense to you?

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Anonymous #16 9h

Can y’all just stop fighting? We have bigger fish to fry than our bisexual considered queer. For example, the killing of trans people in this country. As well as the erosion of our rights of queer people. And I don’t want to hear the argument that bisexuals aren’t queer they are they always happen and stfu.

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Anonymous OP 9h

Quote me where I said bisexuals aren’t queer

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Anonymous #16 9h

Never said you did I was just trying to put a stop to the fucking arguing but I have seen those arguments on here and other places

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Quote me then, if I said it

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Anonymous #16 9h

No one says you did Jesus fucking Christ or at least I’m not

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Anonymous OP 9h

You didn’t, 19 did

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Anonymous #19 9h

Also this is so funny because you absolutely missed the point. If you are bi, you can meet the right person for you and fall in love. And most of the time they will be the opposite gender. For gay people 0% of the time it will be the opposite gender.

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Anonymous #16 8h

I’m probably not the person to be phrasing that statement/question like that to considering I’m a bisexual woman engaged to another bisexual woman, sorry. All I can say is maybe take a hard look at yourself and why you feel so strongly against the initial concept of bisexual folks asking for support from their own community 👍 take care and happy pride

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Anonymous #19 8h

Okay? Your anecdote proves nothing. Bisexuals just have a much larger dating pool when they go for the opposite gender and that’s the math of it. And i don’t really care about that. It’s just the fact of bi people throwing themselves a pity party when every other letter in the acronym has much bigger problems. It’s insensitive and most of yall will never acknowledge the privilege you have. Especially when a gay person calls it out.

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Anonymous #16 8h

You have yourself a nice day

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Anonymous #16 8h

Is it though because most straight women don’t wanna date bisexual guys and there are a lot of gay guys who don’t like dating bisexuals at least in my experience. And don’t get me started on the hate bisexual women get.

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Anonymous OP 8h

your problems are with dating. lesbians and gays have problems with how they’re seen in and by society

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Anonymous #19 8h

Exhibit A

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Anonymous #22 8h

Yes!! Most importantly it’s the patriarchy That wants us all to fight each other instead of working together

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Anonymous #22 8h

right right so the amount of times i’ve had people call me a slut and have people assume i’d be a cheater because i happen to like both genders has nothing to do with how bi people are seen in and by society

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Then what is it a response to? Please I don’t know what you’re referring to.

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Anonymous OP 8h

meant to say I don’t know

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Anonymous #25 8h

I mean the boot usually fits.

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Anonymous #16 8h

oh lovely now you’re just blatantly being biphobic great 🤨 despite the fact i’m a virgin and have never cheated on anyone right…

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Anonymous #16 8h

Shut up when most of us are very loyal or at least I am

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Anonymous #25 8h

I’ve been doing that since the beginning idk why you think this is coming out of left field

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Anonymous #16 8h

just another level of being a piece of shit honestly, hope you have a terrible day ❤️

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Anonymous OP 8h

Literally every cheating situation that I can think of in my personal life was cause by a bi

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Anonymous #16 8h

Maybe they just didn’t like you because of this attitude….

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Anonymous #25 8h

Hire an Etsy witch to hex me irdgaf

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Anonymous #16 8h

#16 you’re messy but you’re honestly entertaining and funny. Don’t run for president please

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Anonymous #16 8h

For one that’s anecdotal evidence you can’t paint a broad picture of an entire group of people. I would like to apologize that you went through that, but that doesn’t give you the right to be an asshole.

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Anonymous #7 8h

Yes!! This too as somebody who is gender queer this needs to be a focus too

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Anonymous OP 8h

It’s awfully convincing for anecdotal evidence. I mean, it’s very common for gay people to refuse to date bisexuals. gay people across the board have had the same experiences.

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Anonymous OP 8h

Even in Queer by William S Burroughs, written in the early fifties, the gay protagonist continually struggles with bisexual men

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Anonymous #16 8h

Still doesn’t give you the right to tell them sluts and say they have a disposition for cheating

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Anonymous OP 8h

I think it does. Omission of the truth is just a lie. So many bi people go back and forth on what gender they prefer. You can’t expect them to stay loyal when the pendulum swings.

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Anonymous #16 8h

For one you gotta be trolling. shut up I’m sorry you had a bad experience but shut up the majority of bisexual people know they like both genders. You are insufferable.

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Anonymous #16 8h

Womp womp

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Anonymous #16 8h

I’ve been trying to be polite to you this entire time but like Jesus fucking Christ I’m sorry your heart is full of so much hate snd vitriol.

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Anonymous OP 8h

Yeah sure. There this guy I used to be friends with who got coerced into opening his 2+ year relationship because his boyfriend, that he lived with, wanted to screw women. It’s valid to not want to out yourself in that situation.

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Anonymous #16 8h

That doesn’t mean all bi people are like that yeah that guy sounds really shitty. Still doesn’t mean all bisexuals are like that.

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Anonymous OP 8h

I’m just saying it how it is. I think you should reflect on why it hurt you. Y‘all refuse to acknowledge your privilege or admit that most gay people have a valid reason for avoiding you.

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Anonymous OP 8h

Not all for sure but I think any gay person has a valid reason to avoid dating bisexual people. Even if it’s not that situation, often times bi people just have internalized homophobia that I do not want to deal with

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Anonymous #16 7h

What privilege I am a gender queer person they’re literally is no privilege I can have also most gay people don’t avoid us. It’s just you and a loud cohort of hateful people. I get being wary if you have bad experience, but you’re taking this to a whole other level of hatred most of us just want to find love Jesus fucking Christ. Also, the idea of cheating, bisexual especially bisexual men started in the AIDS crisis. Because he was thought they were the ones who were spreading AIDS to

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Anonymous #16 7h

Gay people have that too you can see it in the treatment of more fem gay men and The machismo of some gay subcultures. Yeah bisexual people probably have more to unpack but still it’s not a bi only issue

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Anonymous jotaro 7h

This was the point I was trying to make

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Anonymous OP 7h

Being gender queer is an entirely different situation that is not relevant. a black, trans, disabled, bisexual immigrant would be more oppressed than a gay white guy no shit. But that comparison isn’t on fair terms when we are only talking about bisexuality and I think you know that

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Anonymous #16 7h

Doesn’t change the fact of of accusing people of not deconstructing their own bias when a lot of bisexual people have. Just shut up and go away.

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Anonymous OP 7h

God forbid I try to bring some unity and then you come in here spreading hate

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Anonymous OP 7h

I see your point with the second part but again, I did read that this was a thing being talked about before the aids epidemic as well. I’m sorry you’re so upset by this

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Anonymous #16 7h

Says the one who’s basically calling me a slut and a cheater of course I’m gonna be upset by that anyone would be. Also, I’m literally a history major. I think I know what I’m talking about. I am literally getting a degree in erm actually.

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Anonymous OP 7h

Okay Bro. Have a good night. Just try to keep it in your pants in the future

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Anonymous #16 7h

Shut up why would I wear pants when I could wear a skirt

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Anonymous OP 7h

Easy access lol

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Anonymous #16 7h

At this point you’re just being unkind

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Anonymous #21 7h

I‘ve been unkind the whole time idc

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Anonymous #16 7h

Nope, I think it looks pretty God forbid I want to wear what I want also Jesus Christ stop slut shaming. But you know, bless your heart.

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Anonymous #16 7h

I’m quite curious, would you say the same stuff you say about bisexuals to pansexuals?

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Anonymous OP 7h

Yes

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Anonymous #16 7h

OK, so you’re just the problem bless your heart

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Anonymous OP 7h

*starts making out with you passionately*

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Anonymous #16 7h

No thank you that does not sound fun

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Anonymous OP 7h

But it is funny

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Anonymous OP 7h

Sorry the edible hit. Gn

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Anonymous #16 7h

Bless your heart Gn

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Anonymous OP 6h

Suddenly wholesome? lol

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Anonymous #30 6h

I guess

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Anonymous #16 2h

Again. I’m talking exclusively about biphobia.

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