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STOP TELLING LESBIANS SEXUALITY IS FLUID. I AM NOT INTO MEN. I WILL NEVER BE INTO MEN. YOU ARE DISMISSING MY SEXUALITY.
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Anonymous 3w

Nah legit i get this shit from other queers about being a trans + het man. I will never be into men. I don’t understand why this is so difficult.

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Anonymous 3w

mfs go on about sexuality being a spectrum and then forget that you’re allowed to be on one of the ends

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Anonymous 3w

I’m bi and like more feminine men, and I got told Iwas being comphet. I like feminine men and I like feminine women. They were adamant I’m just a lesbian and denying it. Like who are you to tell me how I feel and what I am? I just like feminine people. Plus the one of them claimed to be bi, and the other a queer ally. It really be your own.

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Anonymous 3w

Literally and it’s always another queer person too

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Anonymous 3w

It’s because ppl literally assume that lesbians are just lesbians because they were abused by men. My father used to think like this. Ultimately ppl assume that everyone’s into men u less you’re a masc presenting masc acting cis man.

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Anonymous 2w

sexuality is only fluid for bisexuals. exclusive homosexuality is not fluid and i’m so tired of having to say this

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Anonymous 2w

I bet your into men

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Anonymous 3w

Level 1 woke

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Anonymous 2w

jus bc ur not fluid doesnt mean other people aren’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Me or them?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

They are not woke period. But you’re level 1 woke

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

What does this even mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Like can it be fluid? Absolutely. Is it always? NO.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I’m gatekeeping

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Yeah, i dont care what anyone says. I will never be into men, cis or trans, and it seems like lesbians r the only ones who deal with the issue of being told what we are.

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Anonymous 3w

Sorry, I just related to the part of people trying to tell people what they are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

I deleted my comment because i misread you comment. I apologize for that!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Its no problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I think a lot of people don’t realize how dangerous it is to try and force men on lesbians. Like I tried so hard to force myself to like men, and when I stopped doing that I became the happiest I have ever been. Now I just have to deal with people being like no you are actually bisexual

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Like I have had queer men tell me that they can get me to like men bc they are different and it’s just like you aren’t different

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

It’s really concerning how many people are so confident and entitled to tell other people what they are,especially against women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Yeah it’s true. I just think there is an added layer when queer people threaten corrective rape

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I was called a terf for refusing to date a trans man. Do i care if trans men call themselves lesbians? No not really. But am i terf for not wanting to date them?? I literally am dating a trans woman 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

We really are in the worst timeline

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Exactly!! Like a binary is restricting but if u make the spectrum a definite like you cant be on either side, it falls into the same trap binary sexuality does.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

There’s such an annoying assumption that all trans men are gay/bi (i assume this extends to them thinking all trans women are lesbians/bi, too). Like hell man im not even into tomboy women, im the furthest from men-enjoying you could be 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

The only way I can see it being fluid for a lesbian is like genital preference. I saw someone explain that part pretty well and I was like huh ok yeah but I don’t remember it enough to explain it 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

There’s definitely some flex in like, some lesbians will or wont date non binary people, some are exclusively into 🐱 like you said (without being transphobic abt it), yadda yadda, but it should never and will never center on men

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

This post is about telling someone who isn’t fluid that they are fluid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

and they can feel that way! but that doesn’t mean sexuality itself isn’t fluid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

sexuality can be fluid with people at one end or the other at the same time

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

The OP has addressed this in multiple comments. It seems like you are just trying to be an ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

Quote me where i said sexuality cant be fluid. Because i didnt say that. I said stop telling lesbians who arent fluid in any capacity that they are fluid. Dummy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

Sexuality can be fluid but it isn’t always. Stop speaking in absolutes. You are excluding people by doing that.

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Anonymous 2w

Jesus you’re so annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

That was real cute calling me the f slur

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Dw i got the receipts. Goes to show how disingenuous and vile these people can be.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

im gay i’ll call whoever i want whatever i want x

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

And youll be a chronically online lil bitch all the same. Bet you wouldnt say that in 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

no im chronically online i own that. but here you are replying to a yikyak comment… so hi kettle!!! im pot

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

And ill be a kettle getting railed by my GIRLFRIEND, bet you go to bed lonely 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Thank you for screenshotting this everyone should see what this disgusting person said

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

happy for u!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

girl pls im giggling 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

Wasn’t funny.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w
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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

thanks x i try

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

Ik bro is only still responding cuz he wants the last word. Have a lonely night 😢

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

you’re just like me fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Hello text me

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 2w

And i bet your mother tells everyone how disappointed she is in you

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