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LGBTQIA+ 14w

shark000

 Is there a label for a sexuality that is attracted to all genders except cisgender men? It isn’t the penis I dislike, it’s the audacity.
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Anonymous 14w

I guess I just like queer ppl

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Anonymous 14w

There’s no reason why some trans men wouldn’t also be capable of having “the audacity” or why some cis men wouldn’t be capable of not having it, so I don’t understand how this “sexuality” would truly work.

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Anonymous 14w

Saw this on threads

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Anonymous 14w

LITERALLY ME

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Anonymous 14w

Bi/Pan with basic standards

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

I could never see myself with a cis man but I fw trans guys heavy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

No it’s cis male specific. If you know you know.

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Anonymous replying to -> shark000 14w

No, it’s not. Maybe you haven’t met enough trans men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

No one tell them that I am one 🫢

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Anonymous replying to -> shark000 14w

I am also one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

It’s specifically cis men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

exactly. this is just really weird gender essentialism. like, is OP attracted to men or not?? as a trans man i’d never want to be with someone who wouldn’t also date cis men… because i want to be with someone attracted to *men*, not someone who thinks i’m part of a super special separate category.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

Cisgender men are raised with values of entitlement that make relationships with them difficult and unappealing. Cis and trans men are both men, but have different lived experiences that change how they act.

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Anonymous replying to -> shark000 13w

I understood that this was the angle you’re coming from. And I understand that there are usually differences in how cis and trans men are brought up that can affect worldview and actions. But applying this blanket generalization as an automatic rule for all cis and trans men is just too black and white a view to actually reflect reality. There are plenty of cis men who are perfectly respectable human beings, and plenty of trans men who are misogynistic, entitled assholes.

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