
exactly. this is just really weird gender essentialism. like, is OP attracted to men or not?? as a trans man i’d never want to be with someone who wouldn’t also date cis men… because i want to be with someone attracted to *men*, not someone who thinks i’m part of a super special separate category.
I understood that this was the angle you’re coming from. And I understand that there are usually differences in how cis and trans men are brought up that can affect worldview and actions. But applying this blanket generalization as an automatic rule for all cis and trans men is just too black and white a view to actually reflect reality. There are plenty of cis men who are perfectly respectable human beings, and plenty of trans men who are misogynistic, entitled assholes.