
I feel like this is a good rule of thumb be your authentic self even when you really don’t want to that way people will see you and know you. You can go on Grindr or dating apps and meet guys but those guys aren’t in your natural ecosystem so chances are they might not belong in your ecosystem. I live in Appalachia and I get how difficult it is but I rather wait for the right person than get screwed over by the closest wrong person If that makes sense