Anonymous #1 5w

oh i know but i don’t think ace always means strictly no sexual attraction. like in my case i’m a stone bottom and i have no sexual attraction or desire towards topping or even giving pleasure in a direct sexual manner. like i love sucking strap but i really don’t enjoy giving oral. i also have like no sexual attraction towards genetalia but i do have sexual attraction towards people.

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Anonymous OP 5w

like there’s an aspect of sexuality that i am not comfortable nor interested in doing.

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Anonymous OP 5w

It doesn’t always mean 100% lack of attraction yes, but it’s about attraction, not just not wanting to have sex or do certain things during sex. If that were the case, pretty much everyone would be asexual You have sexual attraction towards people, so you are not asexual

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Anonymous #1 5w

(Obviously it is possible for an acespec person to feel attraction rarely or in special circumstances, but from the way you are talking, I wouldn’t label you as asexual)

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Anonymous #1 5w

that’s fair. i still might still consider it tho but thanks for your input. idk why my comments were downvoted when i’m just talking about my personal experiences.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Fair enough, thanks for being open to input Not sure why that happened but I’ll upvote you

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Anonymous #1 5w

aw you didn’t have to do that but thank you friend. i’m always happy to talk to other stone people too.

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Anonymous #3 5w

A stone top or bottom is someone who ONLY wants to top or bottom. Like for me, i cannot even think about bottoming. There’s no sexual appeal in it for me and im even repulsed by the idea. I’d only ever want to top

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Anonymous #2 5w

ohhh that makes so much sense tysm, i usually say “full top” or “full bottom” but now i got smth new to use

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Anonymous #3 5w

Happy to share!!

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Anonymous #3 5w

i will say that it’s mostly a term used in the lesbian community. it’s more so referring to giving and receiving direct sexual pleasure rather than just topping or bottoming.

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