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LGBTQIA+ 54w
as a recently turned lesbian idk why ppl think sexuality is so rigid and set in stone. sexuality is so fluid and people dont get it. i could ultimately even become bi or even straight again. sexuality can change sm throughout our lives
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Anonymous 54w

For me as another lesbian I don’t think my sexuality ever changed. Like I think I was a lesbian from the start and the process of coming out was unpacking my internalized homophobia. I found that I was never attracted to men and that society had conditioned me into thinking I was attracted to men. So I think sexuality can be fluid but I view my sexuality as rigid

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Anonymous 54w

This is a self call out but I went from being adamantly straight and homophobic due to religion, to a kinda transphobic bisexual in middle school (as in grouping them separately from cis men and women), and now completely apathetic to gender as a pansexual

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 54w

So many straight and queer people have tried to tell me that my sexuality is fluid and that the right man can get me to like men and I hate being told that

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