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This amazing woman I used to work for regularly invents new words using etymology to describe how she feels. I love reading her posts because they both remind me of this and help me take agency over myself and the fluidity of my feelings.
Legitimately though some of y’all get so hung up on labels, and I understand why, but it feels so much better to just let go. Accept you may never have a name for what you feel. You don’t need a name for the feeling the feelings to be real and valid.
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Anonymous 3w

That’s how I am with gender :) it’s nice seeing someone else say what I feel. I use aro ace solidly, because I know for sure that’s exactly what I feel. But gender? Idk man I just exist. Not having a label for yourself is ok, because the only “label” that would be accurate is just your name

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