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To all: Can you just block the stupid instigators. The trans man lesbian “discourse” appears to be coming back and it’s just as stupid as ever, and I want to get ahead of it. Block your local troll, please.
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Anonymous 15h

For the record: Trans men can be lesbians, because it is their identity, and you don’t get to be a cop about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

So trans men are women? Bc females can only be lesbian.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Why this reply sucks: Use of the word “females” NB erasure Grammatically hilarious (“females can only be lesbian” means that all women are lesbian, which obviously isn’t what you meant) Wrong It’s policing other people’s identities

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Trans talk head mod here: trans men can be lesbians

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 14h

What is a talk head mod

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

Just means I own the community. I’m saying I agree with you :3

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

Like I own the trans talk community

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 14h

Damn who’s downvoting you so fast 😭 you haven’t even said anything objectionable 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Trolls :3

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 14h

Why am I getting downvoted 😭 I feel like this is an issue for lesbians to decide not trans people. I’m lesbian and I’m not attracted to men and I’m not a man and so I’d really kinda be looking sideways at a man telling me he’s a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Probably the same person who downvoted me for asking a question lok

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

Consider tho: Identities are individual, not communal. It is not an issue for lesbians OR trans people to decide as a community, it is for the individual trans man to decide if he’d prefer to use the label of lesbian.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Ok but I would never let a cis man say he’s a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

I mean trans men are men, but also are not cis men. And that’s okay, they’re not lesser. But a lot of trans men who identify with the term lesbian do so because they don’t want to be lumped into the label of “straight man” so they maintain their queer identity as something often recognized as explicitly queer and arguably at a glance safer.

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 14h

Sometimes someone you think is a cis man may be a late transition trans man, or a pre or early transition trans woman

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 13h

Yall are lowkey letting men have a lot of audacity here but I may be too anti men for this convo 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Why I don’t give a fuck: You knew what I meant Idgaf about NB Cry

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

I’m intensely anti men too but like cishet shitty men. I think if queer men don’t want to be treated the same as cishet men then let them have all the distance they want under whatever label best describes their style of romantic and sexual love

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Anonymous replying to -> gipsum 12h

There’s an unfortunate amount of trans men that very much play into and uphold the patriarchy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

“Idgaf about NB” Oh so you’re just admitting it okay. Glad to know that I’m disagreeing with a bigot, cool

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Okay and, everyone a bigot to you

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