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Why this reply sucks: Use of the word “females” NB erasure Grammatically hilarious (“females can only be lesbian” means that all women are lesbian, which obviously isn’t what you meant) Wrong It’s policing other people’s identities

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Anonymous OP 7w

Trans talk head mod here: trans men can be lesbians

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Anonymous gipsum 7w

What is a talk head mod

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Anonymous #3 7w

Just means I own the community. I’m saying I agree with you :3

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Anonymous #3 7w

Like I own the trans talk community

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Anonymous gipsum 7w

Damn who’s downvoting you so fast 😭 you haven’t even said anything objectionable 😭

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Anonymous OP 7w

Trolls :3

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Anonymous gipsum 7w

Why am I getting downvoted 😭 I feel like this is an issue for lesbians to decide not trans people. I’m lesbian and I’m not attracted to men and I’m not a man and so I’d really kinda be looking sideways at a man telling me he’s a lesbian

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Anonymous OP 7w

Probably the same person who downvoted me for asking a question lok

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Anonymous #3 7w

Consider tho: Identities are individual, not communal. It is not an issue for lesbians OR trans people to decide as a community, it is for the individual trans man to decide if he’d prefer to use the label of lesbian.

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Anonymous OP 7w

Ok but I would never let a cis man say he’s a lesbian

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Anonymous #3 7w

I mean trans men are men, but also are not cis men. And that’s okay, they’re not lesser. But a lot of trans men who identify with the term lesbian do so because they don’t want to be lumped into the label of “straight man” so they maintain their queer identity as something often recognized as explicitly queer and arguably at a glance safer.

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Anonymous gipsum 7w

Sometimes someone you think is a cis man may be a late transition trans man, or a pre or early transition trans woman

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Anonymous gipsum 7w

Yall are lowkey letting men have a lot of audacity here but I may be too anti men for this convo 💀

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Anonymous #4 7w

I’m intensely anti men too but like cishet shitty men. I think if queer men don’t want to be treated the same as cishet men then let them have all the distance they want under whatever label best describes their style of romantic and sexual love

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Anonymous gipsum 7w

There’s an unfortunate amount of trans men that very much play into and uphold the patriarchy

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“Idgaf about NB” Oh so you’re just admitting it okay. Glad to know that I’m disagreeing with a bigot, cool

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Just people who say bigoted shit :)

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Anonymous #4 6w

every tguy lesbian I’ve met has been a raging feminist… most people with complex queer identities are ime. y’all are assuming motivations without even listening to a testimony. bigots do the exact same for all our queer identities, and I hope we listen to each other more than bigots 💀

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Anonymous #5 6w

Ok and you havnt met all of them it’s just ur personal experience

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I’m an nb lesbian and you can cry about it while I kiss other lesbians 🫶

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Anonymous #3 6w

Ok and you clearly haven’t met a single one and haven’t had a personal experience

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Anonymous #5 6w

Literally my best friend but ok

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Anonymous #3 6w

…your best friend is a tguy lesbian, and you’re arguing against his identity? tf?

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Anonymous #5 6w

No he’s not a lesbian

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Anonymous #3 6w

He’s a straight man

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Anonymous #3 6w

“my best friend’s identity isnt part of this conversation and it’s really important that you know this” ok girl idgaf. ik an actual tguy lesbian who’s an amazing person with a complex queer identity. he and many others directly disprove the idea that tguy lesbians “very much play into and uphold patriarchy.” again, y’all assume motivations like fucking bigots. disgusting to see from this community.

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Anonymous #5 6w

Oh don’t bother responding to him, I blocked him so he won’t be able to see anything on this this post lol

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