i hate to say it but a lot of straight women use gay men as props, emotional support, and to affirm their closeness to queerness without having to do any of the hard work that comes with being a part of the queer community. I think you should drop them tbh it’s going to be hard but they clearly don’t respect you and you deserve friends who will treat you like a person instead of an accessory

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I’m all for women-only spaces but when your main friend group are all girls and you’re the only guy it can be mad isolating Especially cuz they’re all in relationships now. I’m constantly 7th wheeling.

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they don’t really sound like your friends if they constantly exclude you from things

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And they try to group me in with their boyfriends as “the boys” Like no they’re not “my boys” they’re your boyfriends (who I do consider friends) but why try to group me in with them? YOU GUYS are my friends. I’d rather be grouped with YALL. I hate the “othering”

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Like there’s been so many instances where us 4 will take a picture together then one of them will go “wait can we get one with just the girls” I’m just there I guess

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That sounds really rough, I hope you can find some more friends soon who can include you more

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as a girl who has been part of multiple friend groups that are all girls + a gay... the gay is ALWAYS included in the group chat. it's weird as fuck that you aren't. they don't sound like your friends. are they all straight?

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