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Queer women, what do you look for in externally non-obvious queer men that tells you they’re safe or someone you could sleep with without threat of fucking murder? <—- god what a horrifying sentence-

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Anonymous 19w

I vibe well with neurodivergent guys (I’m AuDHD) or ones I know are educating themselves and make positive comments about minorities. I check if they laugh at misogynistic or other degrading commentary as well.

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Anonymous 19w

i don’t talk to men who aren’t visibly queer honestly, even then if they start to say misogynistic stuff i’m so outttttttt. p much in my experience men rly aren’t great like, at all.

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Anonymous

#1 19w

as a fellow autistic, i can share that i don’t really know. it takes time to know every person, but sometimes you can never be too sure with a guy anyway. luck of the draw, i think.

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Anonymous

#2 19w

It absolutely does! Which is why I’m glad many of them have social media trails that can be looked into because that has helped me avoid some problematic ones.

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