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LGBTQIA+ 2w
Idk how ppl dont understand she/they pronouns. Like its not rocket science if i get it just fine
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Anonymous 2w

ok so i don’t understand but obv im in this community. can you like only use she and still be considered respectful or do you have to mix it up? genuine question.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

most people prefer you mix it up (though some people have other preferences)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

so it really just depends on the person?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

yup! asking never hurts (and isn’t disrespectful!)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Either of them are good like if someone referred to me as she and someone else referred to me as they theyd both be doing it right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Okay that makes sm more sense now I have a few friends that identify with she/they pronouns but i usually just use she when referring to them because they dress femininely, so i should def work on switching it up too! I only ask because i want my she/they friends’ gender identity to feel respected so thank you truly

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