Anonymous #4 10w

Amazing

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Anonymous #8 10w

Are they hateful to you or do they just have a les4les type preference?

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Anonymous #9 10w

Im sorry if its the former, you dont deserve that

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Anonymous #8 10w

I think it’s ok to be les4les if they just want someone who shares their experiences and perspective in that way. But if they’re pushing the narrative of bisexuals being “tainted” or more likely to cheat then that’s weird asf

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Anonymous #9 10w

Shit you said the same thing first mb

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Anonymous #4 10w

Lmao it happens dw

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Anonymous #3 10w

literally saw some 17 year old radfem call bi women tainted by men and it reminded me that i can just turn off my phone and interact with normal queer people irl

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Anonymous OP 10w

I wish i had this option

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Anonymous #13 10w

As a lesbian I’m also learning this today

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Anonymous #7 10w

PLEASE😭😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous OP 10w

That kind of mindset is so detrimental ugh, it definitely makes me take a step back from social media when I see stuff like that

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Anonymous #4 10w

Yeah I agree! It’s like when people are T4T or prefer being with other queer people in relationships! It’s just unfortunate to see people do it out of pure spite and with intentions to put down others

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Anonymous #13 10w

….who said they didn’t? Lol

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Anonymous #3 10w

Yeah and you’re the chronically online bisexual who hates lesbians. The irony.

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Are you sure you don’t just feel called out as a terf? No one’s hating on lesbians get a grip

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Anonymous #19 10w

What lesbians exactly are being demonized? The biphobic terf ones?? Yeah that’s exactly who should be demonized. No one’s demonizing normal lesbians and the fact that you feel personally offended and called out is very telling

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Anonymous #20 10w

Okay, first of all, the first part of your argument could be written about for pages. I’m not going there. So if you think it’s such an equal and accepting environment with no bias, then where are all the lesbians making fun of the hurtful bisexuals they encounter on a ver regular basis? Oh they’re not here, bc they would be banned and ostracized, bc all of you would feel offended bc that’s who you relate to. And what does that say about you?? Look around. It is one sided. It’s not an accident.

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Anonymous #20 10w

But bisexuals are allowed to stereotype and bitch about lesbians. That’s for sure.

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Anonymous #20 10w

Ah, telling a minority that they’re not being discriminated against, right after they say they are. Love that so much. How very unifying of our marginalized community .

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Anonymous #19 10w

Nah I see it pretty regularly actually? Lesbians do that all the time. Also wdym who I relate to? I’m not bi, I’m a lesbian dumbass. I just find it incredibly strange that you got so offended by a comment that was literally against calling all bisexual women “ran through” bc they like men. If you were normal and not chronically online you would actually agree. But unfortunately that’s not the case and you just want to feel victimized about anything

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Anonymous #19 10w

What minority was I discriminating against? It’s weird that you’re taking this persons comment as hate against all lesbians and not hate against biphobic terf lesbians. Why do you think all lesbians think this way? Is it bc you’re projecting? If you were normal you wouldn’t feel offended or called out at all by it

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Anonymous #20 10w

It was saying that’s how all lesbians think! That’s hatful af. And where is the equivalent sort of posts from lesbians saying the same sort of things about bisexuals in a similar manner?? Oh that wouldn’t be okay… it’s not equal. This comment section is full of bias, which is ironic, considering the post as trying to cultivate unity, and the ppl seem to agree, but what they say is opposite of unity.

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Anonymous #20 10w

Well I don’t see it regularly and I don’t act that way, and it’s not okay for you to demonize lesbians bc you think that’s what happens “all the time”. I know a lot of things that happen all the time in my experience with bisexual women, but if I spoke as freely as you, I would be run out of all the “sapphic spaces”. That’s the difference. And I’m so tired of lesbians not being welcome in any community.

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Anonymous #19 10w

Quote me on where exactly in #3’s comment they said all lesbians. This is the most insane takeaway from an objectively correct comment I’ve ever seen it’s funny

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Anonymous #19 10w

As a lesbian I will happily and proudly demonize biphobic terf lesbians. Weird you won’t tho

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Anonymous #20 10w

Bc NOBODY was being a terf. There was absolutely no talk of this, and then they just used it to demonize lesbians on a post about a feud. Also, most of the time, this term TERF is used to shame and demonize lesbians for having boundaries, desires and opinions. I wasn’t born yesterday. This is a very clear attack on lesbians. The fact that that was their first thought when thinking about lesbians is sad and tbh infuriating.

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Anonymous #20 10w

Context. Wow “objectively correct”….

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Anonymous #20 10w

Stop manipulating the argument. We are talking about LESBIANS in general and you’re the one who keeps insisting that all lesbians are evil “biphobic terfs”.

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Anonymous #19 10w

So tell me where I said that

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Anonymous #20 10w

It’s there. Look, I think you’re losing the point. Look at the comment section. It’s not equal. Looks like a lot of talk of “horrible evil lesbians” and not the other side. That’s pretty apparent. And the fact that you don’t want to call THAT out is more telling than anything.

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Anonymous #19 10w

Ok so why don’t you make your own comment bringing up this issue. No one was stopping you, you just decided to be offended instead of going about it in a normal way. You don’t need to feel offended by ppl calling out biphobic lesbians. Instead you should be agreeing and also call out the lesphobic bisexual women. One does not take away from the other. Also wdym who ”it’s there” if it was so obviously there you would have no issue quoting it to me

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Anonymous #20 10w

I did make my own comment about it….

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Anonymous #20 10w

So you don’t know what context is huh?….

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Anonymous #19 10w

The post was about lesbians and bi women hating each other and I brought up a real example I literally saw seconds ago at the time online of a lesbian hating bisexual people.

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Anonymous #19 10w

Okay talk about the bisexuals then my god even it out

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Anonymous #19 10w

Im so sorry bro but who is doing that like neither of us are i sincerely hope you talk to whoever did this

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Anonymous #19 10w

shitty rage bait 1/10 do better

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Anonymous #3 10w

Do you even listen?! I literally said so many times how we can’t say the equivalent bc we would be banned and deleted and ostracized from our own “community”.

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Anonymous #3 10w

Why did anything malicious need to be said in the first place on any side?! But there is only a bunch of lesbian hate in the comments. That’s my entire point and you’re arguing about some other argument you made up in your head.

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Anonymous #3 10w

It wasn’t about us hating eachother, it was about us fucking each other….. and you were the one who decided to bring up lesbian hate and then everyone else did also. I never actually see lesbians being “evil and mean” like bisexual women always claim, all I ever see if a bunch of bisexuals complaining about lesbians and demonizing them. So yeah. Pretty lesbophobic comment section.

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Anonymous #21 10w

That genuinely makes me want to cry that you don’t even seem to care about lesbians or equality in our community, and then you degrade it down to something as meaningless as rage bait. This is about discrimination….

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Anonymous #19 10w

Yeah fucking eachother unlike online where both sides are angry at the other and demonizing the other. I gave an example of shit i actually saw. Yeah people disproportionately demonize lesbians as evil and mean but the example i gave was of genuinely bigoted lesbians, who whine about being biphobic and transphobic and unlovable online because they have no community with other self respecting lesbians.

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Anonymous #9 10w

Oh thats horrible

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Anonymous #3 10w

It was 3 years ago but the content my 19 year old self was exposed to and watching other ppl in the queer community defend was quite traumatizing, but it also showed me a lot of red flags to watch out for moving forward

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Anonymous #9 10w

Like what?

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Anonymous #3 10w

Just a lot of lesbophobic dogwhistles and macro-aggressions, its kind of difficult to explain how things tie back into that violence if you haven’t seen it for yourself though

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Anonymous #9 10w

Like for the more obvious its stuff where ppl try to argue that lesbians don’t *really* exist because of bs pseudoscience they pull out of their ass, or like when ppl try to paint us as abusers by using that one study that found us to be more likely to be victims of abuse (though a massive chunk of that is abuse from past relationships w/men), any implication that we can be “fixed” or “changed” with the “right guy”

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Anonymous #9 10w

A lot of the d-breaking specific stuff kind of comes back to the idea we can “refer back to factory settings” with ovulation or alc/drugs, I don’t want to get into a lot of detail with that violence tho since its still quite triggering

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