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LGBTQIA+ 1w
i hate being ace. im dating this girl who i thought i liked romantically but i think it was actually platonic and now ive ruined it all because idk how to tell her. and im pretty sure i have a crush on this guy who is allo. how have i fucked up this bad
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Anonymous 1w

I understand 🫩

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Anonymous 1w

Please tell her sooner than later, no one deserves to be les on like that

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Anonymous 1w

for context ive never been in a relationship before but have an unhealthy relationship with crushes

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Anonymous 1w

World’s most chronically online sentence

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Led not les 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i know, we've only been dating for about a week but we were already close friends before and she lives with another one of my friends so i cant figure out how to tell her without actively destroying multiple relationships in the process

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If it helps a week is a totally normal amount of time to figure out what you want, I’m sure you’ll tell her in a way thats not insulting and honestly it’s not anyone’s fault you’re just not feeling the spark 🤷🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

why?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

What is it about being ace that makes you think “chronically online”?

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