real i’ve been trying to pick apart whether my feelings about sex + dating are being on the aroace spectrum or if they’re just gender dysphoria 😫 have not been very successful!!

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Thought i was asexual until i transitioned, just needed to have my self in order first Now i am as you said a very sexually active gay man

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hmmm well some asexual enjoy sex and others dislike it, overall there's no right or wrong way for an asexual person to feel about sex. instead maybe try sussing out whether or not you feel sexual attraction. so do peoples physical appearances turn you on. that may help you understand if you're ace or not

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thought I just needed to transition and get the right genitals but I did that and realized I was still asexual 😭 bottom surgery still hella worth it

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