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I'm beginning to feel I'm not gonna try to date, bc (almost) every date story I see on social media ends up with people getting freaky and hardcore on the first date which absolutely terrifies me. I think I'll die a virgin.
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Anonymous 1d

this is so real i think the fear/anxiety that, for me, comes w never having done anything becomes a viscous cycle w the fear/anxiety of doing smth ykwim?

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Anonymous 1d

Before you head out on a date, make sure to say you want to take it slow

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Anonymous 1d

that’s just not how dating works tbh. some people do that if they’re looking specifically to hook up but that’s a whole separate thing. i wouldn’t be worried about that especially because when it comes to sex it takes two to tango. if you’re not comfortable going to their place and having sex just say that when it comes up

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Anonymous 1d

please don’t make the mistake of giving it up so easily though, worst mistake i ever made. a person’s first time means so much to how they perceive dating, so protect your virginity until you find someone worthy of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I do

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