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I’m genuinely curious, how do you refer to someone who is genderfluid when they are not around/you do not know what pronouns they are currently using. Do you default to they/them? Mix between they/them, she/her, and he/him?
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Anonymous 49w

i dont know anyone genderfluid with zero pronoun bias, but in my friends cases usually i lean on the ones they use most often while mixing them all occasionally

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