that's the difference. mlm for actual queer men includes that.
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AnonymousOP4w
genuinely no offense/argument intended but that would make it not fetishizing then, right? you're just, you know... into it.
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Anonymous#14w
the post i am quoting is directly fetishizing queer men by using stories abput them for gratification but describing actual queer men in a blatantly homophobic way
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Anonymous#13w
if they wouldnt engage with stories reflective real queer men's joy in relationships out of disgust? that certainly qualifies as fetishization
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AnonymousOP3w
no question, the person whose post this is quoting definitely sucks. i was just saying YOU enjoying that stuff doesn't count as fetishizing it because it's like an actual appreciation of the stories/content for what they are
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Anonymous#13w
oh yeah idc who reads mlm, not being mlm/nblm doesn't automatically make it fetishizing