Anonymous OP 11w

Explore your identify in any way you want but if someone is happy and content being a tomboy/femboy then why try to push for anything else? I’m pretty damn sure majority are pretty damn respectful of this, I’m confused as to why they think we’re trying to push tomboys/femboys into being trans??

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Anonymous OP 11w

if anything it’s the other way around 😭

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Anonymous #1 11w

GENUINELY YES

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Anonymous OP 11w

former femboy here. I’m the only femboy I’ve ever known who had a bad experience with trans people, and (if anything) it just made me take longer to finally transition. my experience only happened because she was a weird person, it had little to do with her transness. the only people who “force” transition are fetishizers & chasers (who are VERY rarely trans themselves)

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Anonymous #2 11w

that’s not really an issue of people transitioning, it’s more of an issue with cishets assuming shit abt your identity (which they would do even if other femboys hadn’t transitioned)

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Anonymous #3 11w

Well yeah definitely its not the ppl transitionings fault but unintentionally they validate what the ppl say and it just intensifies

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Anonymous #2 11w

tbf those people don’t really need validation, they’ll find any excuse to be dicks to us 😭

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Anonymous #3 11w

Thats fair but its not like they’re unsupportive its just im not trans but theyve got proof they can point at

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Anonymous #2 11w

trans people existing wouldn’t stop them from misinterpreting your identity tho. even if it did, it’d be the smallest influence. they’d just be weird abt it in different ways if trans people didn’t exist

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Anonymous #3 11w

Yeah fair it just gets annoying after a while of explaining you arent trans and arent ever gonna be trans while they say things about me being next. Like its not the transitioning ppls fault but part of me still blames them anyways when theyre not the ones saying these things to me

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Anonymous #2 11w

yeah I get that 😭 I despise egg culture so much for that exact reason. idk how people can’t comprehend that GNC people can be secure in their identity and aren’t either “uncracked eggs” or “misguided men that need to learn to be masculine” ;-;

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Anonymous #3 11w

Exactly im a feminine boy and thats perfectly fine but ig that just fucks with ppls internal version of a man

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Anonymous #5 10w

And this is perfectly fine too, I’m just sick of this trope that people think that all/majority trans people think femboys and tomboys are “eggs waiting to crack”

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Anonymous OP 10w

Yeah no, we don't at all, I've had chronically online girls try to call my girlfriend an egg, she's not, it's literally a small vocal subsect of the community that does that

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