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LGBTQIA+ 33w
Actual advice only: gay guys who are getting hit on by their friend’s closeted partner— WHAT DO YOU DO?
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Anonymous 33w

they get one serious warning to knock it off or i’ll tell their partner, if they do it again then i’ll go straight to my friend and let them know. just be aware some women flip out, don’t believe it, blame you, etc. if they do that we probably weren’t a good fit to be friends anyway, but sometimes it’s caught me by surprise.

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Anonymous 33w

😭

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Anonymous 33w

tell your friend what has been said/done

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Anonymous 33w

I thought about doing this, but the thing is that he plays it off as a joke in front of her and others, so like she’s in on the “joke” but it’s getting to a point where it doesn’t feel like a joke in private. At all.

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Anonymous 33w

just saying, you can’t assume bc someone is liberal/not homophobic to you that they won’t freak out if they find out their partner is queer. a lot of people have a “that’s fine for /other/ people, but if it was my partner/kid/parent it would absolutely not be cool” mentality.

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