not even just a bad person, that’s straight up sexual assault

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It’s a lot more fun when both people actually want to do it anyway. Idk why anyone would want to do it with someone that’s even gonna like it or be into it or be passionate back.

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I remember saying no, and he decided to pout about it and I gave in, but I just remember laying there and not being in my body. I thought that if I would give him what he wanted, he would be happy which would make me happy, but I wasn’t.

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a coerced yes is still a no btw

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If someone doesn’t want tea don’t force them to drink tea

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Thank you!!! I had someone try coercing me and others into acts that we were incredibly uncomfortable with. They claimed we were “lame” “purity culture” and that it was a “suppressed homophobia”… I blocked them so fast and it turns out they indeed SAd my friends

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been there, and that shit hurt :/

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Yeah, my last relationship was basically based upon it, almost every time we had sex it was coercion. People that do that are rapists. I would lay there and cry, disassociate, whatever, and they never blinked twice.

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I can’t believe this is even still something that needs to be said, but it does. So many people see no problem in acting like children when turned down. A common excuse is that some people will intentionally play “hard to get”, meaning they expect you to continue pursuing, but that’s just another part of the same problem. People simply should not engage with that behavior, it is encouraging the idea that boundaries are meant to be pushed or fully shattered. Boundaries are boundaries.

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Or if you ask again right after.

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^^^!! And yet someone was in my DMs and I asked them I don’t like people being pushy (asking to send) and he said “I’m pushy sometimes🤭” like ew?!?

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