
Nowhere is ever gonna be perfectly safe bc transphobes pervade every corner of this earth, but urban areas with more vocal queer communities and frequent queer-centered events, or states/counties with explicit political support from representatives willing to protect trans civil liberties. Ofc all these areas are often in more expensive blue states, so if the cost of living there is unrealistic, look for queer community and pockets of safe spaces in your area; ie local music or punk scene or etc