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LGBTQIA+ 1d
i think i’m a lesbian but im scared of the anti trans lesbians :/
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Anonymous 1d

they're an extremely loud minority of lesbians tbh

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Anonymous 1d

Like #1 said, they’re incredibly loud, but they are a very small minority. Lesbians are, by far, the absolute most trans affirming group of people on the planet. There are bad apples everywhere, but plenty more who’ve got your back.

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Anonymous 1d

In any group of cis women there will be terfs. Its important to do what you need to help you be safe but all the lesbians i know are either transfem or transmasc or very much transfeminists. This isnt to say you wont find them but its never worth it to stifle who you are because youre afraid something might happen. Im an afab lesbian and my gf is trans, all my friends are transbians, theyre all in lovely relationships. Dm me if you wanna talk about it but youre so welcome here

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Anonymous 1d

They’re scary but TERFs should not and are not welcome in the community :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i know i’m just afraid with my luck. not to brag but i pass extremely well and with my luck ill end up matching with a horror story and get yelled at

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Most of them aren’t lesbians, even

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

wdym?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Most people who want to remove trans women from lesbian spaces are cishet women, at least that I’m aware of (Kelly Jay Keen comes to mind, as does Jowling Kowling Rowling) Not all, but all the public personalities who advocate against human rights

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Dawg op is talking ab lesbians. To say they arent lesbians is underscoring the real issues of terfs in lesbian spaces

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

i think you're saying that most TERFs aren't lesbians, but i think you're getting downvoted because it sounds like you're saying lesbian TERFs aren't real lesbians?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Yeah my phrasing was bad. Most people who are actively trying to get lesbians to exclude trans women are not lesbians. That’s what I’m trying to say.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

100%!! i think people here are just sensitive to what could be lesbophobia so it wasn't received as you meant it (sensitive meaning being more aware and conscious of potential anti lesbian talking points and sentiments, not in the 'god everyone's so sensitive' way)

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Anonymous 9h

Go fuck yourself

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