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I thought for years I was aromantic but recently I’m starting to get worried that I might have a crush on someone I know. How do y’all know if you have a crush vs if it’s just strong platonic feelings?
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Anonymous 4w

do you want to smooch them with your lips

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Anonymous 4w

You don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I think so?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

this sounds silly but genuinely picture it. close your eyes and imagine their hand on the small of your back, feeling a half-held breath against your cheek, your lips finally touching. if any of it made you feel a little bit 😳, then we have determined it is not platonic

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Thank you, this really helped!! I can safely say it’s platonic 🥳

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

i'm glad 🩵

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