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How does one stop misgendering themselves 🧍‍♂️
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Anonymous 16w

tell yourself you’re a transphobe when you do

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Anonymous 16w

When my gf came out I would write about her in my journal with her new name and pronouns until I got used to it, maybe this could work for yourself? Although I know you’ve known your deadname/pronouns longer than I’ve known my gf’s.

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Anonymous 16w

i keep deadnaming myself

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Anonymous 16w

Simply don’t use pronouns for yourself. If you’re going to refer to yourself in the third person, do it like The Great and Powerful Trixie does.

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Anonymous 16w

idk i still do it sometimes but i boymode like 24/7. Asking my friends to refer to me the right way and referring to myself with she/her online helps a lot!

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Anonymous 16w

no real asf

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Anonymous 16w

Stay the gender God assigned you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

honestly that's quite helpful

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

whyre you even in the lgbtqia group if you're just gonna say this bs

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

You forgot to put the +

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