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LGBTQIA+ 4d
That political lesbianism essay has done some damage on the lesbian community ngl
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Anonymous 4d

Cuz guys no, you cannot be a lesbian if you are any way shape or form attracted to men (not talking about lesbians with unique relationships to their gender), you cant be a biromantic lesbian because youre romantically attracted to MEN

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Anonymous 4d

Yall can downvote this all you want but you guys are invalidating bi people and lesbians at the same time 🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Would you prefer the term biromantic homosexual for people who experience that kind of “biromantic lesbian” attraction?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Clarifying that this is a genuine question

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I appreciate the genuine question. In my opinion, so take it with a grain of salt, that sounds more accurate to the experience you describe. Because lesbian attraction is the one sexuality that excludes men and to attempt to mold it to the (very valid) experience someone who experiences romantic feelings for men and women but is only attracted to women sexually is antithetical to lesbianism.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

And lesbian as a label doesn’t just mean “sexually attracted to women exclusively” it means “exclusively attracted to women, both romantically and sexually “. Its an encompassing word that includes both sexual and romantic attraction to women/enbies exclusively

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Thank you for explaining! That makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Ofc i am always down to converse

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