how it feels trying to date as a trans man when you’re a 5’10 skinny guy who enjoys hunting and camping and not a 4’11 curvy pre-op pre-t uwu reddit femboy
(this is entirely a joke it’s rough out here for all of us)
Start lifting weights 🏋️🏋️🏋️more plates more dates
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Anonymous#12w
> start passing as your average white man from Washington
> pass a little too well for queer people to feel safe around you
> don’t pass well enough around cis people to be able to fit in
> but at least you’re too masc for the fetishizers to like you
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AnonymousOP2w
this is my experience too 😭😭 i do have a boyfriend who i love so so much but it was ROUGH finding a guy who’s into trans guys in a non-fetishy way
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AnonymousOP2w
also in washington and i have spotted so many trans guys who fit this criteria (who aren't necessarily open about being trans but definitely not stealth) and legitimately we need a serious fuckign culture change. what the hell is going on with with our queer community
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AnonymousOP2w
like if ur at all into anything "masculine" hobby wise and youre not cis and the girliest girl ever dating is impossible and making friends is trying to dodge mines in a field along with any other non-passing trans people you know