LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I enjoy sex as its happening and i really enjoy it with my girlfriend but i really dread it?? Like in the moment its amazing and feels good but i dread the act idk why, am i possibly on the ace spectrum? Like she is perfect and its not her

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LGBTQIA+ 2w

I enjoy sex as its happening and i really enjoy it with my girlfriend but i really dread it?? Like in the moment its amazing and feels good but i dread the act idk why, am i possibly on the ace spectrum? Like she is perfect and its not her

Anonymous 2w

Could it maybe be anxiety? Your experience doesn’t really sound like any acespec sexuality I’m aware of, they’re usually related to attraction and it sounds like the act is the only thing you’re having a hard time with. Sex aversion is a different (but related) thing, I’ve known people who were straight but sex-averse and people who were ace but sex-positive (I think they used another word, it’s been a while since we talked about it

Anonymous 2w

You feel like you get sick after the fact? I felt the same way with my ex. It’s hard to understand what you feel but you will at some point. Hell it may just be who you are with. Life is strange sometimes things change

Anonymous 2w

No i rlly know what you mean

Anonymous

#1 2w

I feel fine afterwards you know, but like i very rarely want to initiate and sometimes i just draw it out till the end of the day not because sex itself grosses me out its more that i just dont want to do it much idk, i mean it FEELS good but i just dont wanna do it idk genuinely dont know why because she genuinely makes me feel so good i feel bad because i feel like its not fair that i avoid it

Anonymous

OP 2w

I don’t know. I think I’m Demi or something ace adjacent an I threw up after my ex gave my oral. I felt so scared to imitate sex but it felt kinda good to do it but I felt guilty and awful after

Anonymous

#1 2w

Sorry for the poor spelling and grammar. Tonights been a night