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LGBTQIA+ 16w
The whole “I wish I could be with a woman, but I’m stuck with my stupid gross husband/boyfriend” that goes around in bi circles (and some straight women) is just “progressive” queer rehash of boomer “I hate my wife” jokes and that’s not good
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Anonymous 16w

If you are unhappy in your relationship, reevaluate it and leave! Because no one deserves to be with a partner who doesn’t just not love them, but doesn’t even LIKE them

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Anonymous 16w

We need more polygamy in the bi community

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Anonymous 16w

luckily my gf doesn’t say this but just seeing it everywhere always makes me feel a bit shit inside as a bi trans man

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Anonymous 16w

that's actually so sad i could never imagine saying that about my boyfriend. might need to take a nap bc i'm thinking abt how sad it's gotta make other bi dudes feel to hear/see that and i'm tearing up OOF

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Anonymous 16w

Wait people say this? Man people are assholes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

THIS!!!! Even if it’s just a joke is such a weird joke to make about the person you’re supposed to love and care for 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

REAL

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

yall aren’t already polygamous ?? lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Omigosh right? I’m a bi lady and I see this with other bi women and enby folks all the time - it honestly makes me low-key sad for their partners. My running theory is that it’s not so much that they literally mean it, but it’s often *meant* to communicate: ‘Yeah, I’m bi and partnered with a man, but I’m still bi/queer’ - in reaction to the very real, rampant biphobia that’s out there (even in the LGBT community). But then I’m like… you could just say that instead, my dude. 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

This isn’t funny btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

why 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16w

Because bisexuality ≠ polyamory???

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

oh I was assuming that was a good faith joke made by another bi person

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

who is saying it does?? i’m a bi poly person it was a silly haha funny joke about how me and a lot of my friends are bi and poly. how is your first thought when seeing that that i am declaring bisexual people are all polygamous

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

no one said that ??

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 16w

yeah i'm gonna go lay down and hug my partner 🙁

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 16w

you're such a good partner for the record. if i had a partner like you i'd be so happy. i don't think i could happily live with a "unfortunately i'm attracted to men" person honestly :/

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