
Sadly there is a small minority of trans women who do rape lesbian women to try to get them to like trans women. It is not most but I think it is wrong to say no one is doing it. It is a very small minority and it just reminds me that while she was raping me she kept telling me no one is going to believe you. Again it’s a very small minority not no one
I don’t think it’s inherently transphobic for a lesbian to not be attracted to a trans woman. Being a lesbian means being attracted to women, but that doesn’t mean every lesbian is going to be attracted to every woman. Attraction is personal and involves things like physical features, anatomy, presentation, chemistry, and individual preference. Nobody owes another person sexual or romantic attraction in order to prove that they respect their identity.
A lesbian shouldn’t be pressured into dating or having sex with someone to demonstrate that she isn’t transphobic. Consent means you’re allowed to say no without having to justify your attraction. At the same time, people should be respectful about how they communicate that rejection and avoid degrading or generalizing about trans women.