OP here: I’ll be giving her one final chance by asking for a simply shaggy layered wolfcut (a classic). If she manages to fuck it up I’ll be finding someone new. Thank you all so much for the feedback and advice
My fricken hairdresser pisses me off. She keeps giving me “feminine” cuts and not adhering to the pictures I give her that are more shaggy and “androgynous”. Shes a family friend so it’s odd if I change hairdressers but I really want to