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what do people think of scars when it comes to dating and sex? i haven't done either yet and i'm scared that it might affect how people see me. i know this seem silly, but i rarely see anyone else with scars or marks and feel kinda isolated because of it
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Anonymous 1d

I haven’t had a second thought about anyone’s scars about anyone I’ve been with, dating or otherwise.

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Anonymous 1d

Love them. Dont acknowledge if its not the vibe but if im allowed to think theyre hot then for sures

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Anonymous 1d

if they're sh scars - sympathetic, understanding. I definitely don't think it's a negative any other scars - I think they're interesting and want to know the story behind them, some even look pretty cool

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Anonymous 11h

dating someone who has SH scars and idc outside of being happy at them reclaiming their body/not feeling ugly bc of the scars (it’s an insecurity of theirs)

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Anonymous 17h

I have scars and my gf doesn’t care. She has scars and I don’t care. I personally don’t think it’s a big deal. Plus unfortunately queer ppl tend to have scars bc we are more likely to partake in certain things so I’d say don’t be nervous

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Anonymous 21h

my ex had scars & i didn’t see him any less attractive. i actually told him that if he gets the urge to do it again that i want him to tell me.

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Anonymous 6h

I have a scar on my face about an inch big I’ve had it all my life and I can confidently say I think about it and notice it more than anyone else I’ve known some people for years and they will randomly be like have you always had that scar or something like that

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Anonymous 6h

i have SH scars and a medical scar, i’ve never had anyone bring them up other than to ask what caused a bigger one i have

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