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I hope yall know that you’re not stopping trans men from identifying how they want by constantly posting.

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Anonymous 18w

you cannot say “trans men can’t be lesbians” and still claim to be lgbtq+ because you literally are using queerphobe logic by telling someone they can’t identify a certain way

Anonymous 18w

Anonymous 18w

shoutout to every lesbian trans man, you guys are so cool and interesting

Anonymous 18w

This is not meant in bad faith, just I’m genuinely curious and want to learn: I’ve identified as a transmasc nonbinary lesbian for a while and I’ve always thought lesbian meant non men who liked non men, including people who exclusively used he/him pronouns/on t/transmasc/any trans person/no matter assigned gender at birth, but didn’t identify as a cis man or a binary trans man. Are you saying lesbian goes for binary trans men too or are you using trans men as a transmasc not binary term? /gen

Anonymous 18w

wait then i actually don’t get it, im so sorry, but since trans men are men, and lesbians are wlw… how does that work

Anonymous 18w

regardless if they post ab it or not

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Anonymous 18w

well they’re correct about that

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Anonymous

#1 18w

They’re not. Seeing as I exist.

Anonymous

OP 18w

You can claim something all you want and still be wrong

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Anonymous

#1 18w

My mom said that when I came out as trans lol

Anonymous

OP 18w

dead ass the equivalent of a straight man calling himself a lesbian like what

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Anonymous

#1 18w

Sure dude if you say so

Anonymous

OP 18w

u have no comparison then to make it make sense lol

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Anonymous

#1 18w

Guess I’m also a cis woman because my mom says so. Because just cause I say I identify some way dosent make it true

Anonymous

OP 18w

“just bc I identify some way doesnt make it true” huh interesting

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Anonymous

#1 18w

Yeah. I’m also not trans because transmeds say you can only be 10000% binary or else you’re cis.

Anonymous

evilboyprincess 18w

Yes

Anonymous

OP 18w

And I’m not a lesbian because you say I’m not. OMG. I’m A STRIAGHT CIS WOMAN!!! IM CURED!!!

Anonymous

OP 18w

you’re just misgendering yourself atp. you sound actually insufferable

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Anonymous

#1 18w

I’m not misgendering myself at all. Sorry for being insufferable, I’m sure you’re a joy to be around. Anyway time to go hang out with lesbians

Anonymous

OP 18w

you basically just said you’re not a real man cuz ur trans lolol

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Anonymous

#1 18w

I never said that. You just did

Anonymous

OP 18w

u just called yourself a cisgender woman dumb ass

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Anonymous

#1 18w

Oh my god you can’t be serious

Anonymous

OP 18w

ur words not mine

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Anonymous

#1 18w

They weren’t kidding about the USA being illiterate

Anonymous

OP 18w

says the illiterate one

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Anonymous

OP 18w

its okay tho keep invalidating urself

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Anonymous

#1 18w

Ok anyway

Anonymous

OP 18w

someone’s chronically online

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Anonymous

#1 18w

I literally just showed you things I created with my own hands and you say it’s “chronically online” brother look with your eyes

Anonymous

OP 18w

wtf u can still chronically be online😭

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Anonymous

#1 18w

I’m literally making pottery as we speak. So online. You’re also online bro

Anonymous

OP 18w

I’m not making claims that aren’t true tho😭

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Anonymous

#1 18w

Are you incapable of understanding obvious sarcasm or something? 😭

Anonymous

#1 18w

you’re one step away from transphobic logic btw. freak.

Anonymous

#5 18w

meaning its not transphobic logic..

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Anonymous

#5 18w

the whole point of my logic is that trans men are men and therefore cannot be lesbians. dead ass like saying a straight man is a lesbian like again what

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Anonymous

#5 18w

yall just pick and choose everything

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Anonymous

#6 18w

"lesbian = wlw" is a simplification, given majority of lesbians are cis women interested in, generally, cis women. trans men being lesbians has been a thing since the label has existed

Anonymous

#6 18w

some lesbian trans men aren't binary men, some were very tied to the scene before coming out, some identify with (lesbian, butch, or duke) as a gender, pretty much every one i've seen "loves women in a queer way" and thus chooses to use the word lesbian to describe themself

Anonymous

#7 18w

This!! I’m a non binary trans man

Anonymous

#7 18w

OHHH okay, got it, that makes so much more sense! so then trans men who are lesbians are attracted to cis & trans women + trans men also, or is it just limited to women?

Anonymous

#8 18w

I think that gender and sexuality is confusing and people use words in whatever way they want. I’ve seen binary trans men who are lesbians because they’ve been lesbians so long they can’t leave behind those communities they’ve been in their whole life. I call myself both a non binary trans man and a ftm nonbinary person. I’m a trans man but also not sometimes.

Anonymous

#6 18w

Personally I’m attracted to trans women, nonbinary people, and trans men who are lesbians. I’m not attracted to straight trans men. But like the cute guy I met at a d¥ke night, yeah. (Not cis women just because I’m t4t)

Anonymous

#8 18w

#7 said it well

Anonymous

OP 18w

Gotcha, thanks! That makes sense now

Anonymous

OP 18w

okay literally love it. i think “loving women in a queer way” kind of just helped me lock in because that’s the realest thing i’ve ever heard— BUT thank you for the clarification! ppl shouldn’t be trying to put labels on others that don’t know anything about them

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Anonymous

#6 18w

There’s not a clear line between butch and transmasc, and some trans men maintain connections to the lesbian community via partners, exes, friends, etc

Anonymous

bimbowizard 18w

this argument is the worst one i’ve heard yet

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