Completely agree, this is definitely an issue within our community and it’s good that you’ve called attention to it… also mem

45

I prefer mlems to mems

41

Yeah weird aspect of the patriarchy is the assumption that every one of both genders has attraction primarily to men— like the assumption that all bi girls are secretly straight and lesbians can be turned, vs bi men are secretly gay

31

yeah same i really never understood why people always react so shocked😭😭

24

these sorts of people are extremely dangerous, the beliefs they spread put lives in danger. i've been stalked by a man who believed this, and the fact that people STILL PUSH this, especially women, is nauseating to me

22

i had a coworker who swore up and down that everyone was a little bisexual even if they didn’t know it and it pissed me offff. she kept saying i just haven’t found the right man but there was definitely one out there. it’s so weird.

21

Exactly i dont like mem at all

20

hehe mem

19

100% agree, that shit is absolutely wild. same with people calling bi girls straight as if there aren’t plenty of us who are primarily attracted to women 🫠 also mem! lol

8

Genuinely it makes me feel so isolated when people in the community imply that shit, its crazy bcs I’ll pick up on it and feel crazy when no one else does,

7

As someone who is pan, men are usually fucking ugly. I don’t blame them LMAO

1