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So fellow trans ftm how do I find a way to be fem but also not wanna be misgendered bc there’s times I wanna be masc but I’m also alt so like lemme look like a pretty boy and maybe a lil slutty but not be she/her’d! Like do I just own the look orrr
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Anonymous 3w

I’d focus on getting your voice to pass and either getting on T or learning how to do masculine appearing makeup, cis guys who dress fem are still called guys due to how their voices and faces look so those would be the best things to focus on, chest binding too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Idk where you are in your transition so my advice is very general sry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No this is helpful I can’t be on t cuz of medical reasons and I’m not getting top surgery until winter but it’s just been hard bc I love like rock eyeshadow that’s big and bold but ima try to figure out a masc way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I don’t know much about that kind of fashion tbh but I think you could pull off some eyeshadow if you go all in on the alt outfits, sadly it’s so rare for cis guys to wear makeup that I feel like people only expect it when it’s paired with something extravagant and alt. I think layering your clothes with a jacket or smth and maybe some chains could help tie everything together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

you could maybe look for the same style of makeup demonstrated on cis men? and try to take inspiration from how they do it. idrk about the style either though so i’m not sure what differences there would be between men and women wearing it… but it could be somewhere to start

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