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OP really said “I’m always calling out body shaming” and then posted this
4 upvotes, 20 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "OP really said “I’m always calling out body shaming” and then posted this"
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Anonymous 1d

Omg bros mad at me saying that it’s weird to say you’re not attracted to fat people when your partner could get fat at any time??? Can you screenshot and show me what he’s saying?

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Anonymous 1d

I’m OP and I do always call out body shaming when I see it, however me not being attracted to a certain body type (obese or extremely thin etc) doesn’t mean I body shame people

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

you demonstrably have a really nasty attitude towards fat people if you feel the need to post shit like this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

this was also insanely immature

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I mean I see how that sounds immature but genuinely, most of the people I’ve seen making arguments like this in here are clearly upset about having unsuccessful dating lives, I get it’s disappointing for people to not be attracted to your body but that’s just how life is sometimes. I’ve been rejected for my body type before but I wouldn’t want to force someone who isn’t attracted to me to date me.

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Anonymous 1d

no one in the replies of that first post called you fatphobic to begin with and yet you’re so triggered by mild pushback that you felt the need to make this snide-ass post misrepresenting the whole exchange. THAT is why I say you demonstrably have a really nasty attitude towards fat people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

And there are people who are so triggered that I (someone they will never meet) is not attracted to their body type that they call me weird, tell me I should date people I’m not attracted to, and spend hours trying to convince me that having likes and dislikes in physical features is abnormal

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

one person said “I feel like not wanting to date fat people is weird” and then their only other reply to you was rolling their eyes at you for comparing fat bodies to being a Trump supporter. you are quite literally making up scenarios that did not happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

For everyone who’s not into extremely obese or extremely thin people, or whatever other body type exists out there, there is someone else who will absolutely adore those parts about you. I don’t know what anyone has to gain from shaming people for not being aroused by certain things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah that was a stupid comparison but my point was, you shouldn’t be telling me to date people I’m not attracted to hoping they’ll change later on. You shouldn’t be telling anyone that

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Anonymous 1d

Then why are so many people getting mad at me or telling me it’s weird that I’m not sexually attracted to fat people? It seems like a bunch of people give a shit right now

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I originally posted because I kept seeing people call people transphobic over not being into certain trans body types, and I didn’t understand how an uncontrollable physical preference could be equated to being bigoted, like how people who aren’t attracted to women or fat people aren’t assumed to be misogynistic or fatphobic. I did get some explanations but a lot of people just wanted to get angry at me for not being open to anything and everything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

so you called your own remark stupid then reported me for agreeing. and then you ran back to your Confessions post to lie more

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

ONE person said “I feel like it’s weird”, who exactly is “so many people”? and who got mad at you for using the word “obese”?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Tell him to unblock me and say this shit to my face. Coward

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Anonymous 1d

how on earth are you still hung up on this lie that anyone was calling you fatphobic? you are Not “genuinely asking”, this entire exchange has been you refusing to listen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I listened to the people who gave me actual answers, not the people who call me weird or shame me for not being aroused by every body type. Why are you still hung up me and my post

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Up on*

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

it’s literally not even worth sharing screencaps of, this person is just throwing a tantrum talking themself in circles with the same two or three “wehhh they’re trying to force me to date people I’m not attracted to” talking points and going out of their way to misinterpret every single critical comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I didn’t call you weird or shame you, and instead of listening to me you’ve been too busy throwing a tantrum and repeatedly telling lies about what people have said to you. goodbye!

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