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I as a trans sapphic went to a lesbian bar in the nearest major city, and I could hear other girls talking about me saying "is that a woman??" And it made me feel like, really shitty. I'm trying my best...
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Anonymous 10w

That’s awful, as a cis lesbian i wanna say I’m so sorry that happened. The lesbian bar is like one of the only spaces where ALL queer women are supposed to feel safe, it’s terrible that people were being transphobic dicks to you, but it’s def not your fault, it’s theirs

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Anonymous 10w

Fuck her genuinely you are always welcome in sapphic spaces

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Anonymous 10w

:((( im so sorry :(

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Anonymous 10w

Unfortunately a very common problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I just felt like a circus animal, I'm not even that non passing, it just really hurt bc I had out so much thought into my outfit and makeup and just to get torn down the moment I walked in crushed me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

It was more than one person. A whole group, just kinda looked over at me when she said it

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