LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | if your response to someone from a marginalized community saying “hey this is a form of bigotry i frequently experience, please stop” is “that doesn’t happen” or “not all x do that!!” then you’re part of the problem. shut up and listen.

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LGBTQIA+ 6w

if your response to someone from a marginalized community saying “hey this is a form of bigotry i frequently experience, please stop” is “that doesn’t happen” or “not all x do that!!” then you’re part of the problem. shut up and listen.

LGBTQIA+ 6w

if you match with a trans woman on a dating app and you mention being pansexual off rip that’s transphobic btw. i’m a woman. no hate if you’re pansexual but it’s irrelevant and the compulsion to mention being pansexual just shows you think trans women-

Anonymous 6w

not all pan people are transphobic and/or chasers. pan isn’t the only sexuality that includes trans people. that being acknowledged, if someone opens right off the bat with “it’s okay you’re trans, I’m pan”, that’s super othering and in many cases (like OP already stated) is evidence that the person making that statement doesn’t view as as our gender, but as trans first/only.

Anonymous 6w

them calling me homophobic for this and saying i was trying to erase pansexuals is crazy work

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OP 6w

yea when i said “chaser sexuality” i didn’t mean they’re all chasers, i just meant that there is a disproportionately large number of pansexual people who have fetishized me compared to my experiences with any other sexuality