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Is it bad if I break up with my partner because they decide they want to transition (mtf). I’m a gay man and I 100% support them in this decision but romantically and sexually I want to be with a man.
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Anonymous 5d

It might be sad, but it would be better to end the relationship if you know neither of you would be happy in it It’s good that you’re still supportive of them though

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Anonymous 4d

you can still love a person even if a romantic and sexual relationship isn’t feasible, sometimes that love can keep a relationship alive in the form of friendship, sometimes it keeps existing in spite of the absence of that relationship. transness is inherently about change

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Anonymous 5d

Nope, it’s not

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Anonymous 4d

Nah if anything you’re respecting their gender identity while also respecting your attraction and sexual orientation

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Anonymous 4d

not a bad thing at all. i hope you’re both able to find what you want and need 💜

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Anonymous 4d

if a trans man can be a lesbian, then why can’t a trans women be gay for men?

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