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I need to get something off my chest. I feel so lost when it comes to my gender. I don’t think I’m trans but some days I just feel so masculine and other days I feel so feminine. I tried they/them pronouns a few years ago and it didn’t feel right.
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Anonymous 5d

On some level I do understand you so maybe my experience can help you. I’m AFAB identifying as a woman and gender queer. I identify with being a woman and I identify as being a gender non conforming person. Both aspects of my life are equal. I use she/they but most ppl use she (idc). I express myself visually however I want whenever I want, wearing femme masc or andro. Clothes are like gender to me and my label is inherently fluid to match!

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Anonymous 5d

UGHHHHHH, I feel so lost all the time. Some days I think I want to label my feelings just to understand them but it feels like nothing fits.

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Anonymous 4d

Genderfluid?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I came to conclusion that I’m just me. A girl of all trades and a master of none. But then when I go out into the world I feel people trying to read me and then this confused feeling starts creeping up on me again.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I just want to crawl into a hole and disappear

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