LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I don’t know if I’m into any people. I only fantasize about being the opposite sex to get off. I’m comfortable having sex with women, but nothing does anything for me. Same with guys. I’ll watch porn of ladies, just wanting to be them. 😭 what’s wrong?

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I don’t know if I’m into any people. I only fantasize about being the opposite sex to get off. I’m comfortable having sex with women, but nothing does anything for me. Same with guys. I’ll watch porn of ladies, just wanting to be them. 😭 what’s wrong?

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Anonymous 5w

Since embracing my gendery feelings, often even that gender euphoria doesn’t have much of a sexual hit some days. I don’t know what else to fantasize about. The sensation of her touching me is nice. Why am I like this. I want to feel the normal sexual feelings :(

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Anonymous 5w

how you considered sleeping with men/male presenting? it seems like you might not be getting anything out of topping but it might different receiving if that’s something you’re interested in. you could also be experiencing a symptom of depression/anxiety that’s affecting your libido, nothing wrong with you, just a few chemicals being unbalanced is all

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Anonymous

#1 5w

Hmm. I mean.. yeah I’ve considered it. Lady I’m dating pegs me and I usually cum. But maybe it’s cause we fuck 4-5 times a day. Men is an occasional curiosity but often the idea of touching a guy is a bit sickening for me. Just unappealing.

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Anonymous

#1 5w

Like I can’t cum from just my cock unless I’m jerking off. The only way I really cum is if something is in my ass and I’m being jerked off. Zero hangups. I consider myself slightly bi. I guess? I have strong romantic attraction but I’ve never looked at anybody and felt “hot ooh gotta fuck them” more “holy shit you’re cute and make me happy. Let me hangout with you and kiss you”

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Anonymous

#1 5w

I have fetishes and the lady I’m dating imbibes like.. any of them. So I cum. But I cum from just raw stimulation it feels like. I get to don, sub, top or bottom. Maybe it’s just cause she leaves me all fucked out? Mentally I like women in charge. We both switch all roles.

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OP 5w

Idk I feel ungrateful becuase she does so much. This should be paradise. Why :( I don’t get it. Maybe cause I’m not letting the slow build happen to genuine arousal and I’m just… doing it. I get hard, but domming is a performance art managing everything and ensuring saftey. I’m focused on her everything. Subbing I relax but also I feel guilty and want to focus on being a good sub and giving a show for her. :/

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Anonymous

OP 5w

I mean different people have different amounts of libido, but 4-5 times a day is a lottttt and it seems pretty likely that you would be just sexually exhausted. I would at least ask her to try out reducing that number, and see if that helps make it feel more special.

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