Anonymous #1 15w

This is true, but it’s still wrong to lie to and manipulate someone just to blend in. It’s different if it’s a lavender relationship, or otherwise consensual

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I definitely agree that the most useful/important thing is to address the homophobia, but the nuance is that harmful systems (heterosexism/homophobia) lead people to do bad things. That doesn’t make the action itself not bad. Women are people, too, with feelings, too. Knowingly causing harm to someone is wrong, even if you’re doing it to avoid harm or judgement from others. That’s why I said before that consent and communication is the ethical way to do this

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Anonymous #5 15w

Dare I say most of them

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Anonymous #5 15w

I’m not talking about the ones that are Bi, I’m talking about the DL men that are gay and only attracted to men but date and deceive women as a cover up which is very disrespectful on their end and gives these women false hope.

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Anonymous #5 15w

It’s not showing me your comment for some reason but yeah in that case I agree but you should have been specific. DL men also lead on Gay men and it’s just unfair to everyone

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