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Any advice on explaining he/him lesbians to someone already in the trans community? He says not very nice things about them but says he wants to understand. Running out of ways to explain.
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Anonymous 1d

gender is not defined by what pronouns you prefer

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Anonymous 1d

dont. if they cant understand after you explaing in multiple different ways that on them. tell them that they dont have to understand so long as they arnt a dick and respect the person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Tried this, said “I don’t get it”. Starting to think it has more to do with his dysphoria than his inability to understand?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

hmm maybe an example could help? a lot of people use “they” as an alternative pronoun even when they do not specifically identify as non-binary or

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