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LGBTQIA+ 6w
can we PLEASE ditch the idea that all terfs are lesbians? please and thank you. And don’t even say most are because most lesbians are trans inclusive
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Anonymous 6w

Lowkey if a terf calls her self a lesbian no she isnt cuz wouldnt she love women if she were

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Anonymous 6w

I didn’t even know there was a name for those women. My goodness 😷 most lesbians wouldn’t shit on another lgbtq

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Anonymous 6w

i have never thought to associate lesbians with TERFs actually. thinking of it, when i tried to be on tumblr for a while, i think a lot of TERFs i saw were lesbians, but i kinda took that to be chronically online losers that are bigoted assholes, rather than "oh yeah this person's a TERF, obviously they're a lesbian too"

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Anonymous 6w

TERFs WISH they could be lesbians but their hateful asses could never compare to real lesbians

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Anonymous 6w

I’ve literally never heard this stereotype in my life

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

I mean there is a real terf problem among lesbians but the idea that they all are is wild cuz like im the only non transfem lesbian ik

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

My ex was on that shit but thats cuz she was actually just a terrible person and thought any boundary was transmisogyny 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

I promise it exists

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

I think the problem is alot of terfs co opt lesbianism: ie “political lesbianism” meaning they are still attracted to men but choose to not date them. Real lesbians do NOT excluse trans people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

oh wait shit you're right i forgot they were doing that shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Even then most cis lesbians ive met are trans inclusive: the problem is it is being associated with lesbians when transphobia is a larger issue in the queer community

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Real!! Like also you arent a feminist if you define womanhood as essentially genitalia hun

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well its a lot more insidious irl. Its broadly how transmisogyny functions in "progressive" feminist cis circles. There are still instances where its very explicit but more often its micro aggressions

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

straight men are attracted to women but a lot of them don’t love them 😭 says a lot abt TERFs if they’re acting like a bigot cishet to other women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I agree definitely

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